{"id":11470,"date":"2022-03-20T17:22:57","date_gmt":"2022-03-20T16:22:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/?p=11470"},"modified":"2022-06-09T16:25:14","modified_gmt":"2022-06-09T14:25:14","slug":"var-uppmarksam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/2022\/03\/20\/var-uppmarksam\/","title":{"rendered":"Var uppm\u00e4rksam p\u00e5 vilka budskap du ger ditt barn!"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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– S\u00e5 du skickar din dotter till sitt rum f\u00f6r att \u201dt\u00e4nka \u00f6ver sitt beteende\u201d, n\u00e4r hon gjort n\u00e5got du tycker \u00e4r fel? Vad l\u00e4r det ditt barn om relationer? <\/p>\n

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– Hur menar du?<\/p>\n

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– T\u00e4nk dig att din dotter \u00e4r 25 \u00e5r och att detsamma utspelade sig i relation till hennes partner? Om partnern drog sig undan och inte ville prata f\u00f6rr\u00e4n hon t\u00e4nkt \u00f6ver sitt beteende?<\/p>\n

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– Jo, fast om hon kastade sin mat p\u00e5 golvet skulle jag nog tycka att partnerns beteende var r\u00e4tt adekvat.<\/p>\n

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– Jag fattar. Men \u00e4r det vad ditt barn l\u00e4r sig n\u00e4r du skickar henne till rummet f\u00f6r att hon kastat maten p\u00e5 golvet? Att inte kasta mat p\u00e5 golvet?<\/p>\n

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– Ja, det tror jag nog att hon l\u00e4r sig.<\/p>\n

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– \u00c4r det det enda hon l\u00e4r sig? Eller l\u00e4r hon sig ocks\u00e5 att den hon \u00e4lskar har r\u00e4tt att isolera henne om hon inte beter sig s\u00e5 som hen tycker att hon skall bete sig?<\/p>\n

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Dina handlingar skickar mer \u00e4n ett budskap. Var uppm\u00e4rksam p\u00e5 alla<\/span> budskap du skickar.<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Mer p\u00e5 samma tema:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hj\u00e4lp, jag vill g\u00f6ra annorlunda!<\/a> En artikelserie om att s\u00e4tta gr\u00e4nser med respekt.<\/p>\n

Att s\u00e4tta gr\u00e4nser.<\/a> Samtal mellan Petra Krantz Lindgren och David Edfelt i podden Relatera mera<\/em>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Aktuellt:<\/strong><\/p>\n

F\u00f6r\u00e4ldrakurs!<\/a> Ny kurs startar 29 april i Stockholm.<\/p>\n

F\u00f6rel\u00e4sning 2 april: Jag deltar som en av f\u00f6rel\u00e4sarna p\u00e5 konferensen \u201dFokus f\u00f6r\u00e4lder\u201d<\/em>. V\u00e4ster\u00e5s \u2013><\/a> och online \u2013><\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– S\u00e5 du skickar din dotter till sitt rum f\u00f6r att \u201dt\u00e4nka \u00f6ver sitt beteende\u201d, n\u00e4r hon gjort n\u00e5got du tycker \u00e4r fel? Vad l\u00e4r det ditt barn om relationer?  – Hur menar du? – T\u00e4nk dig att din dotter \u00e4r 25 \u00e5r och att detsamma utspelade sig i relation till hennes partner? Om partnern […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":11634,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[46],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11470"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11470"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11470\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11731,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11470\/revisions\/11731"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11634"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11470"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11470"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11470"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}