Syskon\u00a0anv\u00e4nder\u00a0varandra\u00a0som fj\u00e4rrkontroller\u00a0till f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna, skrev\u00a0jag i\u00a0ett\u00a0tidigare\u00a0blogginl\u00e4gg. F\u00e5\u00a0samband\u00a0mellan\u00a0orsak\u00a0och verkan\u00a0torde\u00a0vara lika\u00a0tydliga\u00a0och p\u00e5litliga\u00a0f\u00f6r\u00a0barn som det mellan\u00a0att sl\u00e5\u00a0sitt\u00a0syskon\u00a0och f\u00f6r\u00e4lderns\u00a0omedelbara\u00a0uppm\u00e4rksamhet. Om man verkligen, verkligen\u00a0vill vara s\u00e4ker\u00a0p\u00e5\u00a0att f\u00e5\u00a0f\u00f6r\u00e4lderns\u00a0uppm\u00e4rksamhet\u00a0\u00e4r\u00a0n\u00e5got\u00a0av det absolut\u00a0b\u00e4sta\u00a0man kan g\u00f6ra\u00a0att smocka\u00a0till sitt\u00a0syskon\u00a0s\u00e5\u00a0att det skriker.<\/p>\n
\u201dMen jag fattar\u00a0inte\u00a0det d\u00e4r!\u201d skrev\u00a0en pappa\u00a0i\u00a0ett\u00a0mejl\u00a0till mig\u00a0h\u00e4romdagen. \u201dOm man sl\u00e5r\u00a0eller\u00a0retar\u00a0sitt\u00a0syskon\u00a0f\u00e5r\u00a0man visserligen\u00a0uppm\u00e4rksamhet, men hur\u00a0kul\u00a0\u00e4r\u00a0den uppm\u00e4rksamheten? En pappa\u00a0som \u00e4r\u00a0garanterat\u00a0arg! Vad\u00a0\u00e4r\u00a0det f\u00f6r bra med det?\u201d<\/p>\n
Hjalmar\u00a0S\u00f6derberg\u00a0skrev\u00a0i\u00a0Doktor\u00a0Glas:<\/p>\n
Man vill bli\u00a0\u00e4lskad, i\u00a0brist\u00a0d\u00e4rp\u00e5\u00a0beundrad, i\u00a0brist\u00a0d\u00e4rp\u00e5\u00a0fruktad, i\u00a0brist\u00a0d\u00e4rp\u00e5\u00a0avskydd\u00a0och f\u00f6raktad. Man vill ge m\u00e4nniskorna\u00a0n\u00e5got\u00a0slags\u00a0k\u00e4nsla. Sj\u00e4len\u00a0ryser\u00a0i\u00a0tomrummet\u00a0och vill kontakt\u00a0till vilket\u00a0pris\u00a0som helst. <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Negativ\u00a0uppm\u00e4rksamhet\u00a0\u00e4r\u00a0helt\u00a0enkelt\u00a0b\u00e4ttre\u00a0\u00e4n\u00a0ingen\u00a0uppm\u00e4rksamhet, menade\u00a0Hjalmar\u00a0S\u00f6derberg. Och jag h\u00e5ller med.<\/p>\n
\u201dJa men, varf\u00f6r\u00a0ber barnen\u00a0inte\u00a0om positiv\u00a0uppm\u00e4rksamhet\u00a0ist\u00e4llet?\u201d, skrev pappan\u00a0tillbaka. \u201dDom kunde ju\u00a0bara komma\u00a0och prata\u00a0med mig\u00a0ist\u00e4llet. Ta kontakt\u00a0som vanligt folk\u2026\u201d. \u201d Ja, det kunde\u00a0dom f\u00f6rst\u00e5s\u00a0g\u00f6ra\u201d, svarade\u00a0jag, \u201dmen handen p\u00e5\u00a0hj\u00e4rtat\u00a0\u2013 \u00e4r det lika\u00a0s\u00e4kert\u00a0att de f\u00e5r\u00a0din uppm\u00e4rksamhet\u00a0d\u00e5, som om de br\u00e5kar?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n
(Ps. jag har\u00a0kollat\u00a0med den aktuelle\u00a0pappan\u00a0att det \u00e4r\u00a0ok att jag delar\u00a0med mig\u00a0av v\u00e5r\u00a0mejlv\u00e4xling. Du kan lugnt\u00a0mejla\u00a0mig\u00a0(g\u00f6r\u00a0det g\u00e4rna!) utan\u00a0att riskera\u00a0att jag skriver\u00a0om det i\u00a0bloggen.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Syskon\u00a0anv\u00e4nder\u00a0varandra\u00a0som fj\u00e4rrkontroller\u00a0till f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna, skrev\u00a0jag i\u00a0ett\u00a0tidigare\u00a0blogginl\u00e4gg. F\u00e5\u00a0samband\u00a0mellan\u00a0orsak\u00a0och verkan\u00a0torde\u00a0vara lika\u00a0tydliga\u00a0och p\u00e5litliga\u00a0f\u00f6r\u00a0barn som det mellan\u00a0att sl\u00e5\u00a0sitt\u00a0syskon\u00a0och f\u00f6r\u00e4lderns\u00a0omedelbara\u00a0uppm\u00e4rksamhet. Om man verkligen, verkligen\u00a0vill vara s\u00e4ker\u00a0p\u00e5\u00a0att f\u00e5\u00a0f\u00f6r\u00e4lderns\u00a0uppm\u00e4rksamhet\u00a0\u00e4r\u00a0n\u00e5got\u00a0av det absolut\u00a0b\u00e4sta\u00a0man kan g\u00f6ra\u00a0att smocka\u00a0till sitt\u00a0syskon\u00a0s\u00e5\u00a0att det skriker. \u201dMen jag fattar\u00a0inte\u00a0det d\u00e4r!\u201d skrev\u00a0en pappa\u00a0i\u00a0ett\u00a0mejl\u00a0till mig\u00a0h\u00e4romdagen. \u201dOm man sl\u00e5r\u00a0eller\u00a0retar\u00a0sitt\u00a0syskon\u00a0f\u00e5r\u00a0man visserligen\u00a0uppm\u00e4rksamhet, men hur\u00a0kul\u00a0\u00e4r\u00a0den uppm\u00e4rksamheten? En pappa\u00a0som \u00e4r\u00a0garanterat\u00a0arg! Vad\u00a0\u00e4r\u00a0det f\u00f6r bra med det?\u201d Hjalmar\u00a0S\u00f6derberg\u00a0skrev\u00a0i\u00a0Doktor\u00a0Glas: Man vill bli\u00a0\u00e4lskad, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":7525,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[45],"tags":[48,56,58,73],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/343"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=343"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/343\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7525"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=343"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=343"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/petrakrantzlindgren.se\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=343"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}